As if you don’t have enough on your plate with a new pregnancy, announcing a pregnancy and on top of that a baby shower, seems these days everyone is doing a gender reveal! What is a gender reveal? Well, it’s where the couple reveals the baby’s gender to everyone in some sort of celebration or cute way. It can be at a party, dinner, home or through photos! It can be with close family or with close friends/family, you choose!

I personally always knew I wanted to do a gender reveal party. I had planned on this even before we decided to try to have kids. I would mentally keep note of the different cute ways to do it and all the cute decorations and games. It really is like a mini baby shower minus the gifts. I kept my party guest list limited to about 30 people. We had catered food, games and really cute blue and pink decorations. For the big reveal I had special ordered these mini cupcakes with colored icing in the middle, blue for boy and pink for girl! We passed a cupcake out to everyone and had them bite into it at the same time with us. The outcome was a shocker! We were so sure our “little bean” was a BOY… but she was a girl! I didn’t know how to process it at first but in the end, I wouldn’t have it any other way. She is so sweet and perfect, I would change NOTHING.

I think it’s especially fun to do this type of event especially if it’s your first child. Memories are everything to me and this is something I can share with her when she’s older. She will see our reactions the moment we found out we were having her. Thinking about doing a reveal? Here are some suggestions:

• Keep it small. Family members and VERY close friends. Anything more than 20-30 people is too much.
• You CAN do it at home with just immediate family! Get a cake and have colored icing placed inside by the baker or close friend! Cut into it together and film the whole thing!
• Don’t ask or expect gifts. This is your moment you are sharing with the people that you care about.
• Make the reveal fun with either a dessert, games or an activity. You can find tons of ideas on Pinterest. I saw a cute one where the couple got a large box and had a friend fill it with either pink or blue balloons. They had to open it in the end to reveal what they were having!
• Don’t want to do a reveal? You can do one through creative photography and post it on your social media or mail it out to people. Again, Pinterest has a ton of photo ideas!
• Don’t want to share your reveal with everyone? Plan an intimate night out just you two and have the results in an envelope. Open it together and celebrate!

Documenting your pregnancy can result in a lot of saved memories and experiences that you can share with your little one later! It may seem like a long ways away till your little one arrives but trust me, it’s around the corner! It flew by really fast for me. I regret not journaling more, taking more photos and documenting more things!